25 February: Dying from Exhaustion

Hey guuuuuuuuys, I’m still tired. I am very tired. I am exhausted and I am breaking down anytime now. I slept about 8 hours? But I’m exhausted af. I guess I’m just mentally tired and it affects me physically. Damn, I got loads of work to do man…. When can I stop feeling tired? When, how? God, I swear I’m doing my best to feel better but I’m tired!!! I have no idea what is draining all my energy, I can’t help but to feel tired, maybe it is all the changes that is affecting me mentally, hell yea I made changes in an instant but it’s tiring. I can go on writing about how tired I am but I think it’s time to type something nice for you guys to read (:

You guys can see the picture right? I’m excited for my birthday! It’s going to be a blast, I don’t really care about my birthday though.. What I’m excited about is to meet lots of my friends, friends since young and till now, friends from everywhere and basically all my friends. Would be really happy to see all of them because I genuinely love all of my friends! Such a lovely dude right? Hahaha I know. I have a thing for meet up sessions, like to bond and laugh and just spend time together like we once did. At one point of our life, we have certain groups of friend we do stupid stuff with. Wouldn’t it be great to bring all of them from different time to one place and hang out altogether? Not to forget my family members too! I just love the idea of seeing everyone I know and spending time together, it makes me happy.

So to all my friends that is looking at that cute little invitation card that I made myself kekeke, if you would like to come, you can come! On that day just come over and have fun! If you need anything just text me or give me a call, I’ll be sure to get you to where I am. Kinda excited kinda not because I’m stressed out. And when you got pimples to prove that you’re stress, YOU ARE. F*ck me, I hope this pimple gets off me before my birthday. I’m halfway done planning everything out but I am lost af. I feel like there is so much to do and so little time to do it. I know organizing things is a piece of cake for me but I’m just too tired to work everything out properly..

My mental health isn’t helping me with anything. It is just one word you guys already know, TIRED. Been so busy with improving on myself I couldn’t focus and multitask on much things now… It is because I got too much to improve on, I am a shitty person. That’s why there is so much to do about me and also why it is tiring af, I guess.

But I know I just need time time time. We all have our love-hate relationship with time but I am hating on time BIG TIME now. Been alright, going to school and eating better. But just couldn’t focus on anything else because I’m like all out on myself. I wanna be a better person and I know I can be. I’m a rushy guy, I can’t stand things undone. Maybe that’s why I’m stressing the hell out of myself but it is just me… I like to get things done immediately.

But just wanna take the time to thank god and appreciate what I’m blessed with. Ever since I went to the temple to pray, I learned and understand. I found peace within and felt better. I still have some feelings I shouldn’t have anymore though. But I found peace and understood everything, I gave it all to Gods above. Fate, my life or anything? Trust and leave it all to God. And live my life to the fullest and best-est (no such word but I like it). No point expecting or holding onto anything that is already gone, there’s nothing left to hold. I’m not sure if I’m doing things right or not by holding onto the fate I prayed for but I feel like I’m gonna get better this way and let you go easier, so why not? But a friend woke me up though, he said: yes there might be fate but what if fate to be just as a friend…… Okay cool….. I’m feeling better than before but not super good but we all started from somewhere right?

Alright my diary is getting sadder with every word I’m typing out so I guess that all right? Talked about my birthday, oh yea did I mentioned? It is exactly in a week time, this is so stressful but I know my party is gonna be lit!!!! Alright guys, thank you all again for reading and I appreciate you all, beautiful people (:

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23 February: Oops

Hey guys guess what’s up? I made a big careless mistake hahahahaha! So right, I was going through or maybe stalking I would say on Instagram, and isn’t an Instagram story way more interesting than pictures? So I had been viewing this particular person’s Instagram story without knowing that the person could see that I’m actually viewing their story……. I just downloaded Instagram not even a week back, come on, spare me from this embarrassment…… Hahahaha, hopefully I didn’t affect anyone…. I’m such a loser but I stopped after knowing that I’ve been spotted long ago. Well o well, what a dummy I am. It never crossed my mind, I’m just too engrossed in viewing that story hahahaha but fine I should stop interfering someone else’s life.

Alright, was saying that I had a topic to talk about but it is really a very troublesome and long one and I can’t feel it today so…. sooner or later but not now alright. Sorry about that, I apologize

Today was another school day after 2 days of holiday, but I spent it working so not really a holiday. Gotta work hard for what I want. Be it money, knowledge or anything. If you think that success comes easy, you are not gonna get anywhere. It will definitely be hard and rough, you want it, you work for it. Simple right? But sad for see many of our generation is leaning towards the easy route. And depending on anyone they could find and help them with everything. I believe in being independent, sooner or later we have to be. Your mum isn’t gonna pay your taxes for you, YOU are the one going to do that. Glad that I am somehow independent, not very very independent but I would say a little. Not trying to show off or anything but I work hard to live the life I want. Not trying to act cool or anything but I pay for my phone bill and transport fare. Luxuries like new clothes and all? I pay them all by myself. I never liked the idea of getting money from my hardworking mum that is supporting the family, not just me. I know how hard it is to work, I know how easy it is to spend. And it hurts to see how many people are living off their parents and not thinking a bit for them at all. Who wouldn’t like to have a day out and spend all the want without looking at the price tags? But at the same time, your parents are looking at how much they are left with and how much more they have to earn to keep your fat*ss well fed with nice clothes and shelter at the same time, while you just spend their hard-earned money like water. Water that flows out of the tap and down the sink then gone forever.

After all this is my expectations of people of the same age. Expectation. Another big problem. Do you guys know that expectation is a huge humongous largest we have? No right? Now you know. Let me explain further. The other day I was reading through The Four Noble Truths, I learned. Life is not ideal, it frequently fails to live up to our expectations. Many of us are suffering because of our expectation about how life is going to be, how things are going to be and how everything should be.

This world and life, isn’t going to change it to the way we want it. We have to change and adapt to it. Our expectations are nothing but a piece of useless sh*t to the world. When you learn to stop expecting, you learn to stop suffering from sadness, disappointments and anger. Just do whatever you want, instead of expecting someone else to do it for you. And when they don’t do it, you get disappointed and hurt and you suffer. It’s your life, your choices and decisions, if that is what you want then go get what you want! No one is stopping you, even if there is, don’t let them! There is no such thing as fear unless you think it exist. To me, it doesn’t. It is a waste of time and a stupid thing. Don’t you guys think so? Fear of the judgement, expectation, people and society… You living for you right? So why bother?

I just learned all of these a few days back, glad to be sharing it with all of you guys. I’m not the wisest or oldest but I like sharing too so I do it because I want to. Thanks for reading guys, really appreciate all of ya!!

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21 February

Hi guys!!! How’s your day going? Fine? Not fine? Doesn’t matter, you will be fine. Time will help you to get back up on your feet and eventually you’ll be fine! Oh wait, only if you allow yourself to be fine, because your mindset matters most. It is all up to yourself, controlling your mind or let it control you.

Alright didn’t mean to be so serious but just sharing some words hahaha, chill out guys! I am very very sleepy but I couldn’t let myself sleep without completing my diary…. Actually I was writing halfway but I realized what I was writing is going to be a very long and deep topic/story so I decided to save it for tomorrow or the day after because I am not sober…. I am very sleepy and drunk, sleep drunk, not drunk, get it?

Okay cool moving on, today was really normal day for me. Went to work early in the morning, around 7am and all the way till 5pm. No idea why I am so tired today, just feeling sore everywhere and sleepy….. Was falling asleep awhile ago while writing the initial post for today but didn’t allow myself to do so because I have a diary to update. Not gonna be lazy or sloppy, I’m changing and will change. I sound so motivated right???? I am.

So after work I took the bus home and suddenly it started raining, YAY! I love the rain, I just love it. Even though the rain didn’t allow me to go home without getting drenched but I still love the rain. So instead of going home straight drenched I went to walk around, walking into shops to see if there’s anything I need. Had a lot of debate with myself, asking myself whether I really need it when I see something that interest me, super saver attitude guys do learn some of it from me to avoid bankruptcy hahaha. Didn’t get anything in the end because I have all my needs already so I went to have my dinner. Found a Thai stall, kinda shocked because I didn’t know when it appeared, I guess things really change and changes fast. So of course I had to try it right, ordered a plate of minced meat with rice, I’m sure there’s a name for that dish but I’m sorry I have no idea what is that dish’s name hahahaha. Enjoyed it, it was delicious for me. Who wouldn’t enjoy a plate of Thailand? Then before I went back home got like 2 packets or bread to prepare for breakfast. Said to be the most important meal of the day, b r e a k f a s t. Be sure to have your breakfast daily to avoid any funky gastric pain alright, be good listen to mama and have your breakfast hahahaha! Seriously though, I’m sure we are all rushing to work or school but just grab a piece of bread or something, it is better than nothing. I care for you guys alright, thank you if you do care for me too and I’m sorry if I mistaken that you care for me hahahaha. Take good care of yourselves and just be happy, don’t worry!

I find this a little pointless now because I’m not concentrating at all even though I’m trying my best. I feel like the content is getting real shitty. I should stop here for today…………. Sorry guys, just wasted like 5 minutes of your time reading this pointless post. But still appreciate you guys!!!

Jal Ja!

20 February: A New Start

Hello people! Can’t believe I’m blogging again. Writing/typing helps. And I totally need this help so why not and at the same time we can talk about the experiences we’ve been through and help each other out with all the problems life have been throwing at us. Blogging is like keeping a diary, which is cool! Hopefully this time my diary never stops updating so one day when I’m older, I can read my book of life.

Today is the 20th! This date represents a new beginning to me for many reasons, like how today is my first day of school and how I decided to surface on social media again… There’s a few deeper reasons and secrets behind this date that I’m not gonna share, maybe one day? I don’t know, hahaha sorry guys.

I wanna be truthful and write down all my raw thoughts here, I wanna open up and will need time to do so, but please understand that there are things that are sensitive and things I don’t feel comfortable sharing so yea… Hope y’all understand but after all I would really like to open up because this is my diary, I wanna write down everything I’m feeling and doing so I could really reminisce when I’m older and reading back.

Alright here goes, how is everyone doing? I’m not doing good honestly but it’s fine hahaha, feeling really restless & busy recently. That’s great for me because I really need to keep my mind off somethings and some people. Alright I’ll just talk about it, but first, to whom it concerns, I really hope you don’t get offended in any way that I’m sharing my heartbreak story, no intentions of provoking anyone in any way, thank you and sorry. Alright moving on, I’m sad guys. I don’t normally open up, but for this situation I know that I have to because the consequences will be dire if I don’t, I know it and it’s dangerous. I used to run, as fast as possible and as far as possible until it is solved, then I will be back. Irresponsible right? I learn and realized, somewhere somehow I lost my way in life, I became irresponsible, arrogant, bad-tempered, rude, materialistic… All the bad things you name it I have it… Distractions and temptations that everyone knows about seems to be a small thing, until you fall into it and become LITERALLY stupid. And I became stupid, maybe even blind. I fell and I didn’t know, I thought I was right all along when I was wrong. I couldn’t hear anyone else but myself. Self-centered. I became a bad person and I couldn’t figure it out why is everything so different, I thought everything was alright but I’m not, it was me all along. That’s how bad I was, doing something wrong and yet not knowing. Eventually falling to the lowest point where I didn’t know why everything crumbled and tumbled. Curious, confused and just passing time for the sake of life. I swear that if I knew about that, if I knew that I was that F up and was in the wrong, I wouldn’t continue. When someone is in the wrong and thinks that it’s right, sometimes it is just because the person didn’t know what he was doing is wrong and mistaken the wrong for right… That’s why naturally I would keep doing the wrong things because I thought it was right! I still find it stupid because I often reflect on myself and all but not enough for me to realize all this? I guess I need more reflections then..

I checked on the person I broke up with quite often and I don’t say anything about that. I’m secretive and insecure, I know if someone knows my weakness I will be made fun of for that particular matter or any other. But I learn to open up, build up my self-confidence and esteem.. Ignore the expectations of anybody and judgments.. I really don’t care anymore. I just wanna be who I am, say what I say and do what I do. I love this girl and I love her. I didn’t know nothing about love. Until I became so desperate I started reading articles, stories and watch videos about love. I understand now. Understanding when it is all too late sucks. I can’t do anything. Everything felt really really weird and the feeling got stronger and so strong I started checking on her constantly, seeing her happy and better.. with someone else woke me up INSTANTLY. All my confusions and questions were concluded and answered. It was her, all this while it was her and always been her. I reflected hard, I tried to do anything that will bring her back but it is too late.. So late. I was so desperate I wanted just a little pity or sympathy from her, enough for me to be happy and at least for a while. I didn’t care how others are gonna look at me or judge me, I was doing it for what I really wanted. I knew that doing anything now will only ruin her happiness but I told myself to be selfish for one last time for something I really really would do anything for. But reality is great, reality sucks too. Reality was great when I had her by my side but it sucks that she’s done and over. I like how she doesn’t sugarcoat anything so I would stop pestering her, but you know everything, word and reply I got was good enough for me, anything is good enough. And straight to my face for all my wrongdoings. Things I swear I really didn’t know. I was THAT distracted, to the point I didn’t know any sh*t I was giving. When I woke up from all my bullsh*t, I was sorry and very extremely sorry. Up till today, I will still be sorry.

I know how things should be once it is over, but I made it different again. Doing things I’m not supposed to do, always letting my emotions control my mind. I’m sorry again and will always be sorry. I know that even if I got to talk to you, it would be nothing to you and temporary happiness for me. But I still appreciative, grateful & thankful for it, even though I messed up your life once again, I’m sorry and really sorry. I somewhat know how to deal with a break up, I took the advice I would give any broken couples to comfort myself. It works like for… at most few minutes? My emotions were really f*cked up to that point of overtaking my body physically and mentally. Feeling cold, hard to breathe, feeling sick and totally no appetite to eat. I went to watch comfort videos for break ups on YouTube, goes into search would be something like “how to deal with break up” and I will be watching and trying my best to get every single word that I already know but still hoping for the video to tell me I still got hope with you, but it was never going to happen. For one thing that I couldn’t stand is time. We all know time is the main ingredient for recovery.

For the very first time, I’m straight up facing this problem that I have rather than running, I will change the fact that I’m always running away. And hell yea this is one big problem in my life to face. All was mistakes and toxic, not sure why you’re in love with that word, maybe because it is used best to describe me, someone who really hurt you that much. I’m still sorry and will take all the blame. I would say it again and again that it is my fault and I deserve any treatment from you and people who were right about me all along. Hopes of you hearing me out will always be alive, even if it is not for relationship purposes.. Just for understanding.

Things were somehow over after the last time we talk, I was expecting the end sooner or later.. Somehow prepared somehow not, but things got a little bit better. I stood up and made changes I had to and I’m motivated to strive for great things in life. I know it’s silly but I really do hope for fate to do its thing again in the future. Been keeping in touch with myself spiritually and prayed to God for your smooth sailing endeavors, safety and also for everyone you love around you in exchange for one of my bad addiction. I will always be here for you anytime you need me, caring & worrying for your safety, health, well-being and supporting you but I hope it is not visible to you because I’m afraid it might just affect you. I will move on for now and focus of myself and will keep improving myself. Just wanna thank you and like to stand corrected, millions of thank you’s isn’t enough to express my gratitude to you and millions of I’m sorry will never be able for you to see how pathetically regretful and guilty I am.. I just want you to know that you were the greatest thing that happened, keep being yourself because you are amazing just the way you are, I’m sure there are many that will appreciate you and if it even matters I really appreciate your existence in my life and world.

Thank you